tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6492095958614311103.post215021584150374152..comments2023-04-01T03:28:18.993+02:00Comments on jcat and the big bad wolf: lies and dead babiesjcathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03736961961261409218noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6492095958614311103.post-45722803789876492702007-11-24T22:13:00.000+02:002007-11-24T22:13:00.000+02:00A....I know you are right, in all you say. Not tha...A....I know you are right, in all you say. Not that I have much of a conscience, but what there is would definitely not be comfortable lying to a friend about something like this. <BR/>She's already so upset though, never mind when she knows it has died.....jcathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03736961961261409218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6492095958614311103.post-2033722335381518502007-11-24T20:07:00.000+02:002007-11-24T20:07:00.000+02:00Hi Jcat,You are so kind and care so much about oth...Hi Jcat,<BR/><BR/>You are so kind and care so much about others feelings. I know it will be painful for Suzy's "mom" to hear she has passed away, but I think it is important that she know the truth. <BR/><BR/>The autopsy results and your explanation that she could have done nothing better than she did will soften the blow and any worries she might have about her responsibility for Suzy's passing.<BR/><BR/>I believe it is important for people to experience these passings of pets and other small friends. It may help people with perspective when the time come that they lose a human friend or family member. <BR/><BR/>I know that my neices were better able to face their Grandma's passing because they had watched their cat and dog pass away beforehand. They had experienced a death before having to face the awful reality of losing someone else so close to them.<BR/><BR/>Also, if you lie about Suzy I worry your conscience will be bothered. It is a hard decision to make. These are just some things I thought about when I read your post. I will support whatever you choose to do.<BR/>...aquaAquahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16230285017033299419noreply@blogger.com